One of the most unique things about SON Ministries’ Summer Lunch Camp is the opportunity for children to create and run their very own restaurant, to which they invite others to be guests at. It is hands down one of the most memorable and fun experiences for both the children and the customers. Seeing restaurants from another perspective this summer, I have learned a few super awesome lessons that I will take with me into the future.

Often, when people think or talk about work, they refer to it as a burden or something we all have to do. However, one of the volunteers at camp made an interesting comment that I haven’t thought about before: “children actually want to learn how to work, it’s our negative way of talking about work in front of children that keep them from wanting to do work.” Children, as made quite obvious through my many interactions at camp, are sponges; they pick up everything that they see and hear. It is the same with work. If you’re a parent or sibling and come home everyday complaining about work or saying “I can’t wait for the weekend,” children are going to believe that work is a bad thing. Although it’s perfectly normal to want the weekend, the tone in which one expresses that can have a massive effect on children.

At camp, the children are excited for the opportunity to plan, cook, and serve delicious food and show adults all the skills they’ve learned. I attribute that excitement to the volunteers who help prepare for restaurant. I constantly hear adults telling the children how important it is to find something that you love or can have fun doing, telling stories of their path into their career, and showing that work can be rewarding.

I’ve found that what we show children, even if not on purpose, matters even more than what I’ve ever thought. Something as simple as saying “I hate school” may change a child’s entire perspective on things that could greatly benefit them. It has been enjoyable to watch children take ownership over something like a restaurant, transferable skills, and make the most incredible food. I encourage everyone to come check a restaurant out for themselves and enjoy an amazing meal prepared and served by the children at camp. Sign up at son-ministries.org